I never set out to talk about sex for a living.

I was a kindergarten teacher, the kind who always stayed late, not just to clean up glitter, but to support the exhausted mums — the ones who were parenting their kids and their partners. I was the one babysitting the children… and sometimes, it felt like I was babysitting the parents too.

One night, after babysitting, a couple who’d been together for 12 years opened up to me.
They told me about swinging. At first, I laughed. I was curious. Confused. Intrigued.
Little did I know, that one conversation would flip my world upside down.

What started as innocent curiosity led me into the world of non-monogamy and sexual exploration — and underneath it all, a reckoning with my own shame, trauma, and self-worth. I had to face things I’d buried for years — being mocked for my looks, people-pleasing, being silenced after experiencing r*pe, and the deep belief that my voice, my desires, my body… didn’t matter.

I went from being a CrossFit athlete and personal trainer, obsessed with performance, to a woman completely disconnected from her body and sensuality. But something inside me cracked open — and I started studying everything I could: sexology, self-pleasure, trauma healing, tantra, kink, conscious relationships, and ethical non-monogamy. I wasn’t just learning — I was healing. I was remembering who I really was.

And slowly, I started sharing what I was discovering.
First with friends. Then clients. Then stages.

Now I’m an International speaker, Intimacy Coach, Relationships Therapist and Founder of the School of Sensuality — (a space where women come home to their bodies, ditch the pressure to perform, and discover new, nourishing ways to experience pleasure) and Turn Me On Tuesdays - (a private VIP service where CEO’s, entrepreneurs and high achieving parents feel safe to be heard beneath the taboo topics with real understanding and real results for their marriage)

Because it’s not about being perfect — it’s about being present.

As a Scorpio, I’ve always been drawn to depth, love, transformation, and truth.
I turned my pain into purpose.

Now I help others all over the world do the same — through coaching, retreats, workshops, and unapologetically real conversations about sex, love, intimacy, confidence, and connection.

You’ll find me sipping coconuts at sunset, lifting weights in the gym, dancing barefoot at festivals, meditating by waterfalls, or hosting aphrodisiac pleasure parties — I’m not your clinical therapist in a lab coat. I’m bold, playful, grounded, and wildly in love with the human experience.