intimacy. pleasure. relationships.

intimacy. pleasure. relationships.

Hi. I’m Katy Orah

Private Intimacy & Relationship Support for High-Achieving Profiles

For couples who are successful everywhere — except in intimacy.

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You’ve built careers, businesses, teams, and a life that looks good on the outside. But behind closed doors, something feels missing…

You’re not broken.
You’re not failing.
You’re just disconnected from each other — and from your bodies.

I help high-performing couples reconnect emotionally, physically, and intimately without turning their relationship into another project to manage.

We do this with :

  • Private, high touch intimacy coaching + luxury retreat experiences

  • A blend of body-based connection work, practical communication skills, and modern intimacy practices

  • Deep, real transformation — beyond quick fixes, beyond performance, into lasting intimacy, presence and connection

This life changing work is for couples who:

  • Are driven, intelligent, and self-aware

  • Run businesses, lead teams, or carry high responsibility

  • Love each other — but feel more like roommates than lovers

  • Communicate well on paper, but lack depth, ease, and desire

  • Are tired of “talking about it” without real change

You don’t need more strategy.
You need presence, safety, and deeper connection.

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Most high-achieving couples don’t struggle because they don’t care.

They struggle because:

  • They’re always in their heads

  • Their nervous systems are overstimulated

  • Success has trained them to perform, not soften

  • Intimacy has become effortful, awkward, or avoided

Desire doesn’t respond to pressure.
Connection doesn’t come from logic.

It comes from the body feeling safe again.

Relationships don’t just magically ‘work out’ .. they need attention, energy and care, just like your career did. I help you too :

  • Feel close again without over-talking everything

  • Reignite desire without pressure or obligation

  • Move out of roles (leader, manager, provider, caretaker)

  • Experience intimacy that feels easy, alive, and grounding

  • Create a relationship that feels as nourishing as your success

When you invest in this part of your life, the rewards ripple into everything else.
Because success isn’t just about what you achieve out there — it’s about how good it feels in here.

Why This Is Different

This is not regular couples therapy.
This is not communication training.
This is not about fixing what’s “wrong.”

This is transformational intimacy work for couples who are already capable — but disconnected.

Together, we work with:

  • The nervous system (not just conversation)

  • Emotional safety (not performance)

  • Polarity, presence, and desire

  • The patterns that success creates inside relationships

So intimacy becomes natural again — not forced.

Apply For Your Journey:

1:1 Coaching & Therapy

  • This is private, tailored work for couples who are successful on the outside but struggling to feel close, understood, or connected on the inside.

  • There is no one size fits all, we often cover :

    • Why communication breaks down and how to fix it

    • What’s driving disconnection, resentment, or emotional shutdown

    • The real reason desire and libido drops — and how to bring it back

    • Practical steps to rebuild trust after cheating, lies, or secrecy

    • How to express needs without fights, guilt, or defensiveness

    • Understanding your triggers and patterns so you stop repeating them

    • How to feel good in your body again instead of stressed, numb, or checked-out

    • Direct, honest support for your relationship and sexual challenges

    • Clear tools you can use immediately

    • Somatic exercises to shift stress, tension, and shutdown

    • Strategies for communication, conflict repair, and intimacy

    • Guided exercises for rebuilding desire and connection

    • Optional high-touch support between sessions

    • Individuals or couples who feel disconnected or stuck

    • Those dealing with low libido, mismatched desire, or no intimacy

    • High-achievers who look “fine” on the outside but feel numb inside

    • People who want a real, healthy relationship — not just a functional one

    • Anyone who’s done talking about the problem and ready to actually change it

  • This work is honest, direct, and results-driven. If you’re looking for real tools, not vague motivation — you’ll thrive here.

    This is not surface-level coaching. It’s for couples ready to take responsibility, slow down, and do the work together.

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Couple’s Retreats

  • No emails. No schedules. Just the two of you, barefoot in the sand, laughing, exploring, and finding new ways to enjoy each other (and maybe get a little salty in the best way).

    This is a high-level, private 2/3 day immersion designed for couples navigating infidelity, breakdown, disconnection or simply wanting to reboot the long lost passion — and ready to address it powerfully.

  • ✔ 2/3 days in paradise

    ✔ Sensual bodywork & tantra-inspired intimacy practices

    ✔ Daily duo rituals, breathwork, and connection exercises

    ✔ Ways to reawaken chemistry and closeness

    ✔ Space to laugh, touch, heal, and explore

    ✔ Time to be together - without distractions

    If you're a high-achieving couple on the brink — infidelity, breakdown, distance — and you still care, there’s a path forward.

    💡 Optional Experiences: Kink + Tantric Experience, Shibari, Plant Medicines Ceremony, Cacao Workshops, Yoni Massage.

    • You love your partner but feel the spark has dimmed.

    • You crave deeper emotional and physical intimacy.

    • You want to communicate better and truly understand each other.

    • You’re ready to bring more playfulness and passion into your relationship.

    • You are navigating a break up

    • You are needing time to reconnect and rediscover yourself

    • You are ready to heal and become your best self

    This is not a yoga retreat. This is a private, high-performance experience for couples navigating the edge — whether it's betrayal, burnout, or breakdown — designed to reset the foundation and reignite the intimacy, clarity, and connection you're missing.

    • Individuals or couples ready for a breakthrough

    • People who want focus, clarity, and support away from daily stress

    • Those navigating affairs, distance, or major relationship tension

    • Anyone wanting to feel more connected, present, and alive

  • You don’t need to be spiritual or sexy or confident. You just need to be open, willing, and ready for change.

    Think of this as a hand picked in-person experience - you share what you are currently navigating and Katy cherry picks the best suitable experience just for you.

    These retreats are intentionally small and intimate to ensure safety, depth, and real transformation.

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Sexuality Explorations/Yoni Massage

  • Slow, sacred sexuality is not about performance. It’s not about “doing more” or achieving orgasms straight away.

    It’s about slowing down, awakening your senses, and being fully present with your partner’s body - and your own.

    This experience invites you to explore sensuality and pleasure as a meditative, intimate art - not just a means to an end. Think of it as soul-connection through breath, touch, intention, and energy.

    This is the space where sexuality meets real education, real communication, and real personal growth.

    It’s sexpert guidance on how to understand your body, pleasure, desire, and sexual patterns without shame or awkwardness.

    Most adults never learned how to have healthy, connected, emotionally safe sex. This is where that changes.

    • Slowing down and listening to the body

    • Releasing shame, tension, or numbness

    • Reconnecting to pleasure as safety, not achievement

    • A deeper sense of trust, presence, and softness

  • If you’re curious, open, and seeking embodied healing — not quick fixes or sexual performance.

    This is For :

    • Individuals wanting to feel confident and relaxed in intimacy

    • Couples wanting more desire, better sex, or deeper connection

    • Anyone dealing with low libido, avoidance, or performance pressure

    • People healing from past experiences or shame

  • 🔒 Available in-person only. Pre-session required.

    Sacred sexuality sessions are not focused on penetration or orgasm.
    Instead, they offer a nourishing space to explore, and expand your capacity for intimacy and full-body pleasure—without pressure.

    Every session is guided with care, consent, and respect for your boundaries and desires.

    This work is always professional, ethical, and grounded.

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2h Date Night for Couples

  • A guided, playful date night that you don’t have to plan.. designed to bring the two of you back into connection — through fun games, relaxed intimacy exercises, and easy communication prompts that help you actually feel close again.

    It’s a structured, sensual, connection-focused experience that takes the pressure off and lets you rediscover each other in a way that feels natural, enjoyable, and emotionally safe.

    Think of it as a reset button for couples who want more spark, more closeness, and more “us time” — without forcing anything or pretending everything is fine.

    • A guided 2hour “experience” with structure, support, play + direction

    • Practical connection exercises (no cringe, no forced vulnerability)

    • Simple communication tools you can repeat at home

    • A safe space where both partners feel heard and supported

    • A takeaway plan for keeping the connection going after the session

    • Optional follow-up support if you want a deeper relationship reset

    • Fun, light-hearted intimacy games that help you flirt, laugh, and actually enjoy each other again

    • Sensual connection exercises that feel natural — not forced or awkward

    • Conversation prompts that open up desire, curiosity, and emotional closeness

    • A guided structure so you don’t have to guess “what do we do next?”

    • Moments that feel romantic, exciting, and genuinely bonding

    • A take-home menu of games + exercises you can keep using for your own date nights

    • Individuals or couples ready for a breakthrough

    • People who want focus, clarity, and support away from daily stress

    • Those navigating affairs, distance, or major relationship tension

    • Anyone wanting to feel more connected, present, and alive

  • This isn’t therapy, it’s not sexual, and it’s not about “fixing” anyone.


    It’s a heart warming intentional space to reconnect, communicate better, and rebuild the foundation your relationship actually needs.

YES PLEASE

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Ready for Private Transformation?

If you’re a high-performing couple ready to go beyond the superficial — reconnect, heal, and ignite the spark that matches your success — let’s talk.

Apply for your private consultation below. All information shared is confidential, treated with the highest discretion and reviewed personally.

I was a professional CrossFit athlete, trained in discipline, pressure, and achievement and I’ve spent years travelling the world immersed in intimacy, embodiment, and relational work.

Those two worlds taught me the same truth: success without connection eventually feels empty.

Today, I work with high-performing couples worldwide who are driven, capable, and often disconnected guiding them back to intimacy through grounded presence, emotional honesty, and evidence-based, transformational work.

HERE IS WHAT THEY SAY

FAQ -

FAQ -

  • Coaching with me blends elements of body‑based therapy, somatic healing, communication work, and real‑life relationship guidance — but it’s not “clinical talk therapy.”

    It’s an integrative, heart‑led coaching approach aimed at helping you reconnect to your body, your pleasure, and your relationships.

    If you need mental‑health diagnosis or deep trauma therapy, I’ll refer you to a licensed therapist.

  • This work is designed for individuals or couples who feel successful on the outside — high‑achievers, busy professionals, people used to “doing” — but feel emotionally disconnected, out of sync in intimacy, stuck in communication patterns, or numb inside. It’s for those who want more than surface‑level fixes: more presence, deeper connection, real intimacy, and lasting healing.

  • Not at all. Whether you’re single, dating, in a long-term relationship, non-monogamous, healing after a breakup, or simply wanting to reconnect to your own body and desires — the work suits you.

  • Nope. Whether you’re single, partnered, exploring non-monogamy, or just starting to reconnect with yourself — this work is for you

    • A safe, non‑judgmental and grounded space to explore what’s really happening under the surface (stress, disconnection, shame, past wounds).

    • Somatic and embodiment practices to reconnect with your body and your emotional intelligence.

    • Communication tools, conflict resolution strategies, desire & intimacy re‑connection practices, and tailored guidance.

    • Gentle but honest support, with no judgment or pressure — and real, practical tools to integrate into everyday life.

  • No. While erotic intimacy and sex are part of what we may explore, the core focus is on emotional safety, trust, communication, connection, self‑love, and healing. The practices are about building a deeper relationship — with yourself and/or your partner — not just about physical performance.

  • It depends on what you need.

    Some people want a few sessions to rekindle connection or rediscover intimacy; others are ready for deeper transformation — a multi‑session program or retreat.

    I’ll always be transparent about what I believe you need to create meaningful change when we first talk.

  • Real transformation often needs openness, honesty, willingness to feel and heal, and a bit of vulnerability.

    It helps if you’re ready to engage with yourself (and your partner, if relevant), try somatic practices, stay curious, and do the inner work.

    The more committed you are to exploring what’s beneath the surface, the richer the results.