LOVE. SEX. RELATIONSHIPS. AFFAIRS. KINKS

LOVE. SEX. RELATIONSHIPS. AFFAIRS. KINKS 

Your SHAME FREE approach to intimacy, 
affairs, love, kinks and relationships ..

Intimacy Coaching. Relationships Therapy. Elite Couple’s Healing Experiences. Tantric Sexuality Experiences

— all designed to help you fall in love again (and again).

If you're feeling stuck in patterns that drain your energy …
If the spark feels dim or distant…
If you're craving more connection, touch, and play...

You're in the right place.

I help couples come back home to each other—through coaching, intensive healing experiences, hands-on workshops, and tantric intimacy practices that go way beyond surface-level solutions.

Wherever you're at, there's a way forward. Let’s find what feels good for you two.

@katybampton

@katybampton

Couples often come to me when...

  • He wants to understand why she’s pulled away — emotionally or sexually — and she wants to feel seen and heard, not just needed.

  • She’s wondering why he’s so avoidant or shut down, and he’s feeling overwhelmed but doesn’t know how to say it.

  • They both feel like roommates, not lovers, and want to bring back that spark, playfulness, and deep intimacy.

  • Arguments keep looping in circles — no one feels understood — and they’re craving real communication without blame.

  • One partner is craving more sex, the other wants more emotional connection — and they don’t know how to meet in the middle.

  • They love each other, but stress, parenting, or old wounds keep pulling them into distance, resentment, affairs, or confusion.

  • They want to overcome betrayal from cheating and affairs with the office girl

1:1 Couples Coaching & Therapy

  • This is not just “talking about your problems.”
    It’s a journey into how you relate, why you disconnect, and how to come back to each other again - with more honesty, desire, and emotional safety than ever before.

    Whether you’re overcoming affairs, fighting constantly, feeling like flatmates, or craving more sex and connection but don’t know how to ask for it - this time creates the space to be real, honest and heard.

  • Every couple is different, but here’s what we often work through:

    • Communication patterns — how to break the loop of blaming, defending, or shutting down

    • Unmet needs — learning how to express what you really need without guilt or fear

    • Emotional intimacy — reconnecting through honesty, vulnerability, and presence

    • Sexual desire & libido mismatches — helping you both feel safe, seen, and turned on again

    • Past wounds or betrayal — healing what’s been buried, so it doesn’t control your future

    • Rebuilding trust — step by step, with embodied tools and accountability

    • Creating rituals for connection — so love isn’t just left to chance

  • ✔ A space to be seen, heard & understood
    ✔ Tools for emotional safety & deep communication
    ✔ Intimacy practices to reignite desire
    ✔ Guidance through betrayal, resentment, or disconnection
    ✔ Support that meets you where you're at—without shame or blame

  • I combine deep psychological mind based logical understanding with somatic (body-based) practices, sensual connection tools, and nervous system regulation.

    This means you’ll not only understand what’s going on in your relationship—you’ll learn how to feel differently together.

    We don’t just “talk it out”—we work with the body, breath, emotion, and energy, so change sticks.

    You’ll leave with practical tools, new habits, sensual practices, and a whole new understanding of each other.

  • ✅ Couples stuck in repeating arguments
    ✅ Those who’ve drifted apart emotionally or sexually
    ✅ Couples healing after betrayal or lack of trust

    You don’t need to be “on the verge of breaking up” to get support. Sometimes you just need someone to shine a light on where you’ve stopped seeing each other.

  • Katy works with couples over a minimum 8 week period. True transformation doesn’t happen in 1 talk therapy session, growth together happens when two people are committed to change for the better of themselves and their relationship.

    Each experience is tailored to each couple and the time, budget and desires you both have. Please book a call with Katy, fill in the form below or DM on Instagram @katybampton

Couple’s Healing Experience -Thailand

  • You and your partner step off the boat onto a hidden tropical island in paradise. The sun’s out, the breeze is warm, and the ocean’s doing its thing - calming everything down.


    No emails. No schedules. Just the two of you, barefoot in the sand, laughing, exploring, and finding new ways to enjoy each other (and maybe get a little salty in the best way).

    This is a high-level, private immersion designed for couples navigating infidelity, breakdown, or disconnection — and ready to address it powerfully. In 2/3 days, you’ll be guided through a tailored recalibration process that delivers clarity, healing, and reconnection.

  • ✔ 3h or 3 days in paradise

    ✔ Sensual bodywork & tantra-inspired intimacy practices

    ✔ Daily duo rituals, breathwork, and connection exercises

    ✔ Ways to reawaken chemistry and closeness

    ✔ Space to laugh, touch, heal, and explore

    ✔ Time to be together - without distractions

    If you're a high-achieving couple on the brink — infidelity, breakdown, distance — and you still care, there’s a path forward. But it’s not in therapy rooms with white walls and generic advice. It’s in a structured, immersive, private setting where you can truly be met.

    💡 Optional Experiences: Kink + Tantric Experience, Shibari, Plant Medicines Ceremony, Cacao Workshops, Yoni Massage.

    • You love your partner but feel the spark has dimmed.

    • You crave deeper emotional and physical intimacy.

    • You want to communicate better and truly understand each other.

    • You’re ready to bring more playfulness and passion into your relationship.

    • You are navigating a break up

    • You are needing time to reconnect and rediscover yourself

    • You are ready to heal and become your best self

    This is not a yoga retreat. This is a private, high-performance experience for couples navigating the edge — whether it's betrayal, burnout, or breakdown — designed to reset the foundation and reignite the intimacy, clarity, and connection you're missing.

  • ✅ Couples needing a fun reboot
    ✅ New couples wanting depth early on
    ✅ Long-term partners ready to rediscover each other

  • 🔒 Available in-person only. *You can join Katy on a secluded island or Katy can join you at your location of choice.

    Think of this as a hand picked experience - you share what you are currently navigating and Katy cherry picks the best suitable experience just for you.

    Please fill in the form below with ideal dates and Katy will get back to you.

Sacred Sexuality, Tantra & Yoni Massage Exploration

  • Tantric sacred sexuality is not about performance. It’s not about “doing more” or achieving orgasm straight away.

    It’s about slowing down, awakening your senses, and being fully present with your partner’s body—and your own.

    This experience invites you to explore sensuality and pleasure as a meditative, intimate art—not just a means to an end. Think of it as soul-deep connection through breath, touch, intention, and energy.

    • Stoic sensual touch: deep, slow, intentional touch that calms the nervous system and awakens pleasure throughout the whole body

    • The art of giving and receiving: learn how to hold space for your partner and receive without guilt or pressure

    • Breathwork & energy movement: feel the waves of arousal move through your body without rushing or forcing

    • Yoni massage education: (with consent) explore emotional release, pleasure mapping, and awakening sensation in the vulva

    • Kama Sutra-inspired connection rituals: including heart opening eye contact, sacred positioning, and loving presence

    • Erotic safety & sensual consent: understanding how to touch and be touched with trust, clarity, and reverence

  • ✔ A safe, guided exploration of sensual energy
    ✔ Tantric rituals and breathwork to awaken the body
    ✔ Yoni massage education and optional guided session
    ✔ Tools to release tension, shame, or numbness
    ✔ A whole new way of being with each other sexually

  • This experience is for couples who are:

    • Curious about tantra, yoni massage, or sacred intimacy

    • Wanting to explore sensuality with more depth and safety

    • Healing from past sexual pain, numbness, or shame

    • Ready to rewire their connection around pleasure, not pressure

    If you're feeling the pull toward deeper erotic connection—this is your invitation.

  • 🔒 Available in-person only | Pre-session required

    Sacred sexuality sessions are not focused on penetration or orgasm.
    Instead, they offer a nourishing space to de-armour, explore, and expand your capacity for intimacy and full-body pleasure—without pressure.

    Every session is guided with care, consent, and respect for your boundaries and desires.

    👉🏻 hello@katybampton.com

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Let’s Get Started – Enquiry Form

Tell me about you two . Fill out the form below or book a call so I can learn more about your relationship and guide you to the right experience.

If your relationship feels more like a routine than a romance, it’s time to shake things up!

Katy Bampton has supported couples from all over the world - ranging from high-achieving business owners to newlyweds and new parents, here’s what they have to say about working with her :

FAQ -

FAQ -

  • You can expect a space that’s honest, direct, and deeply supportive — where both of you feel seen, heard, and respected.

    My coaching is not about blame or surface-level tools. It’s about getting to the truth underneath the chaos — whether that’s betrayal, resentment, emotional shutdown, or years of feeling like housemates instead of lovers.

    In our sessions, we’ll work through:

    • What’s really going on beneath the fights, silence, or distance

    • How to communicate without spiraling into defense or shutdown

    • Rebuilding trust after betrayal or broken connection

    • Exploring intimacy beyond performance — into connection and presence

    • How to move forward: rebuild or consciously uncouple with clarity and respect

    I hold space for high-performing couples who are used to leading — but need support when the relationship starts to break beneath the pressure.

    It’s deep work. It’s not always comfortable. But it’s real, and it can change everything — if you’re ready.

  • No — this work goes far beyond sex.

    While intimacy and erotic connection are absolutely part of what we explore, the core of this coaching is about rebuilding trust, emotional safety, and connection in your relationship.

    We look at:

    • Why you’re disconnected (emotionally, physically, sexually)

    • How stress, work, resentment, or betrayal have shaped your current dynamic

    • What’s needed to feel safe, desired, and respected again

    • And how to communicate and connect in a way that feels real — not performative

    Sex is often the symptom. The real work? Is underneath it.

    This is about reconnecting to yourself, to your partner, and to the deeper truth of what your relationship is ready for — whether that’s rebuilding intimacy or redefining what comes next.

  • Nope. Whether you’re single, partnered, exploring non-monogamy, or just starting to reconnect with yourself — this work is for you

  • Absolutely. So many couples feel the love is still there - but the connection is buried under routine, stress, or unspoken needs. Together, we create a space to slow down, tune in, and rediscover the intimacy that’s waiting underneath. It’s not about fixing, it’s about remembering how to meet each other again - with curiosity, care, and fresh energy.

  • A high-touch immersion for couples navigating infidelity, emotional disconnection, burnout, or the brink of divorce — designed specifically for high-performing individuals who want clarity, healing, and results.

    Set on a discreet island, (or travel to you) this isn’t a yoga retreat. It’s a guided relationship recalibration.

    Over 2/3 transformative days, you and your partner will:

    • Receive expert coaching tailored to your unique relationship dynamic

    • Learn how to rebuild trust and repair emotional ruptures

    • Explore conscious touch and non-verbal connection through guided somatic intimacy practices

    • Gain tools for emotionally intelligent communication — without blame or shutdown

    • Reignite erotic and emotional intimacy (if chosen)

    • Experience structured sessions for clarity: whether you want to rebuild, redefine, or consciously release the relationship

  • That loop isn’t random—it’s often a deeper need trying to be heard. In sessions, we don’t just surface the symptoms; we go to the root. You’ll learn how to communicate in a way that actually lands, shift out of blame and shutdown, and finally feel understood—not just talked at. This is where real change happens.